I hated my body until you touched it. And I am sure why. They say that youth is wasted on the young. But I’m starting to think they are wrong. I used to have dreams about the first time. A first kiss, a first love, a first marriage. I think firsts are given to the young because they are imperfect, fleeting, and full of lies.
I used to think I would never be loved again because I was someone else’s first. I used to think stretch marks from someone else’s baby would revolt the next man to touch them.
It turns out, I was wrong.
He likes to tell me I am sexy, and I spend too much time acting like this idea is crazy.
Because the truth, I’m now learning to tell, is that when I am with him, I feel sexy.
Seconds seem more real to me now, because they are covered in the scars left behind from the damage I did this body and this mind when I was too young to know better.
These scars may lie on the outside, but they offer a tiny glimpse of the wreckage that lies beneath. Ugly things are more interesting than pretty things. More interesting because they tell a story. I used to spend a lot of time exaggerating my daily life. Now, I love everything that is simple about it.
The reality is that my past isn’t nearly as pretty as I tried to make it. And I wasn’t nearly as ok as I told you I was. The beauty is that you already knew that. Myths have a way of being proven wrong, and the truth it seems, is always revealed. If your touch brought my body back to life, your vision of me cleared the wreckage from my soul. You dusted off forgotten pieces of me, and you polished it until I shined.
In the morning, hazy eyed from a long nights sleep and an early morning touch, I can’t help but think I like seeing myself through your eyes. And that my second chance is really about learning to love myself for the very first time.